How do we focus on the vision – the work and the dream, the worldbuilding, the promise of moral justice – when we’ve been in firefighter mode? A nine-step guide to creating the kind of conflict that illuminates, not the kind that despairs.

Is this what they meant by “it’s lonely at the top”?

What is systemic, what is immediate, what is relational, what is emergent?

I think everyone needs support working through conflict.

less fear, more ease

a few steps to take

“Nearly everything I know about love, I've learnt from my long-term friendships with women.”― Dolly Alderton, Everything I Know About Love

a gentle exploration

an offering

who decides the line, and why?

a practice of return

tending to our scars